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Integral Arrogance
I’ve noticed many self-proclaimed ‘integral people’ are quick to become ‘self-accredited therapists’. They graciously provide free advice to those less fortunate who are struggling at lower rungs of the integral hierarchy. Integral arrogance - You gotta love it!
Therein lies the incredible value of Ken’s favourite concept – holarchy. It’s not below you – it’s IN you! –which, ironically, is why integral people enthusiastically adopt the role of amateur therapist in the first place: because the shadow concept is central to the integral framework. But alas! It’s a fine line between an amateur therapist and one of Maslow’s esteem-seekers making faintly disguised efforts to prove she is just as “evolved” as her peers.
The key is – no matter who we are or how much development of consciousness we’ve put ourselves through – we all still have a red-level power-driven ego that inevitably steps out of line on occasion. And if you are arguing a point motivated by that power-level-ego, you do indeed need therapy (now I’ve done some diagnosis of my own, despite the fact that I’m a corporate strategist, not a psychologist – but hey it’s fantastic fun!).
This brings me to two important integral themes:
1) The minute we find ourselves believing we (being ever so indigo) are superior to others (being so desperately orange or green) – we have reverted whole-heartedly to our red-power-ego level selves, and demoted our focus from Maslow’s self-actualisation to his esteem-chasing.
2) I believe that as a society we will fail if we do not have people who go very deeply into each level, and in doing so pave the way for our understanding of what each level contributes to wholistic self-actualisation of ourselves and our society. As Noam Chomsky goes deeply into green-pluralism and Richard Dawkins goes deeply into orange-rationality, we profit immeasurably from the insights they excavate. To criticise or think lightly of these people, or anyone focusing on any particular “Tier 1” level for that matter, because they are “lower down the rainbow” is arrogant and, interestingly, a form of lazy immorality.
Forget these two points and the integral movement risks sliding down the slippery slope to a movement of back-slapping, post-new-age try-hards engaged in diligent mystical masturbation.
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Systemic
Posted June 6th, 2010 by shamansunI wonder how easy it really is to use such a system of thinking and conceiving the world, and not find a place for arrogance in it? It makes me wonder if it's really worth it. Might we have all lost something in the charts and "developmental stages," pertaining to the wisdom behind the original texts?
Has anyone read or tried to conceive of the world without AQAL or SD? I know it kind of overruns your system, literally like a new OS. But to take a step back from that and see the world fresh--isn't that important? I feel like we can get lost in all this.
If you read the original writings, like Gebser or Teilhard or Aurobindo, there is a different quality to their style. One thing that might help is not some over arching conceptual system we all use but a diversity and variety of depth and transformation.
My own frustrations are in the fact that, despite there being a great need for alternative views to Wilber's systemic/intellectual approach, he has popularized Gebser and the evolution of consciousness in general. I guess, I'm hoping we get more authors and thinkers out there who can portray differing views without getting artificial models shoved in their faces.
There is so much missing if we only look through one lens (even if it is an over-arching lens of everything). Here's to the natural flowering of the evolution of consciousness that will find a way to transcend the current conceptual approach's difficulties. :)
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Kettles and Pots?
Posted June 6th, 2010 by GameOfThrivingI couldn't help myself - or, I could have, but I am hoping you will join in the fun. :-)
here is the question I was left with from your post: Is there a healthy second tier recognition of superiority, or is any such recognition necessarily red ego gratification?
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Valid Concern
Posted June 7th, 2010 by StanleyI also share your concern for the potential for arrogance within our integral community. At step one we are all privileded enough to have some type of access to a working computer with internet access and we are educated enough to be able to read and read in English. This would be enough for our ego to have an excuse to become arrogant. And it snowballs from there.
I do not see much good flowing from aggogance. Combine arrogance with narcissism and things can get very ugly very fast. I think that part of our lifelong practice needs to include actively working towards the opposite of arrogance/narsissism. The best word I can think of is humility without the connotation of any self harm or putdown. If anyone can think of a better word please share it. The basis of this humility is a realization that we are all humans in the same boat (the Earth). If some of us more priviledged than others it just means that we have more responsibility to work for the good of the all.
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Posted June 7th, 2010 by David MarshallRustin, you say, "The minute we find ourselves believing we (being ever so indigo) are superior to others (being so desperately orange or green) – we have reverted whole-heartedly to our red-power-ego level selves, and demoted our focus from Maslow’s self-actualisation to his esteem-chasing."
But it seems you are taking a superior position to those who claim to see more perspectives than Richard Dawkins, Noam Chomsky, or the like. By your definition, you have reverted to your "red-power-ego" self, yes?
Of course, once a person does see that they see more perspectives than Chomsky or Dawkins, narcissism and arrogance can come in, and people can self-inflate and minimize or undervalue the contributions people like that can make, but I don't think there is anything inherently wrong or arrogant in simply noticing that one sees more perspectives than another.
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Big Smile!
Posted June 9th, 2010 by Mary Linda Landauer
Hello Rusty, I hope you are smiling too. How nice both of us can come together and be featured with our perspectives under the Integral Umbrella. How are you? It is nice to be back writing and to be connected with everyone on Integral Life.
Addressing arrogance at any stage of growth is important; otherwise it can create a backlash of moving forward for anyone. We must all put on our rador of awareness and be responsible for not allowing this negative aspect to creep in.
Love to you always,
Mary Linda
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Direct Experience
Posted June 10th, 2010 by Bill KilburgTalk about arrogance , I believe you wrote that post about me. lol
Good post Rustin and I found what you wrote very usefull. So I thank you for writing it.
I always enjoy the statement I believe came from Adi Da....Spirit is nowhere to be found because its everywhere found. Given that statement has some validity Spirit is also found in arrogance. Its when we become unaware of the game that its all an illusion and we make a belief about arrogance that it become bigger than the Self.
Arrogance coming from a level of direct experience is just arrogance. Arrogance coming from a belief about it is reduced to the realm of concept and is either right/wrong good/bad.
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Good
Posted June 11th, 2010 by Julius KoI like posts like these, it makes us start to question parts of the framework and community. Ken's done a great job outlining and theorizing, but it definitely isn't the ONLY way and believing that can truly lead to arrogance. I've experienced that myself; in preaching to my family and friends; only to realize afterwards, that the one in the mirror was acting from a lower impulse (and I think you're right Rusty; most likely from a Red-level; posing as 'superior integral').
Much appreciation for all these threads.
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Different Point
Posted June 14th, 2010 by Sebastian StarkId Like to address the same thing from a different angle.
I think that its superproblematic that we still cant call sensible green self by its name without the other person getting upset.
This leaves us with this addiction for harmony that has produced so many lies, bigottry, disfunctionality and space for (politically correct)narcisict as.ho... to mainupulate other people and so on.
Cant we find a space were we can display what we truly see and think?
If I have Intuitions about some one else, why cant I say that? If its wrong, we can clear that through communication!
To think that you know better is not the problem.
To misunderstand your actual cognitive capability while wanting to be respected for something that you dont are, typical green behaviour, thats the problem, product of 50 years of glorification of naricism, sensibility and so on.
And in my experience this shows two-sided: The hippies and the arrogant ones. The one version defends its sensible self through typical green value sets, the other one just rants about other people, on and on.
Its easy to differentiate between green lamenting and integral ones: Is the lamento producing resulkts or is it just concerned with defending a person from feeling bad or having to change (ngeate its own position)
We had far too much sensiblity over these years.
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narcissism and arrogance
Posted June 29th, 2010 by Philip HarrisToo many of the people who really need the wisdom and direction which Integrated life offers will never ever know about it because of manifested narcissism and arrogance of the practitioners. It seems that too many have already retired into a self created intellectual world with a new language not available to mere mortals. Orange people, green actions.. ? And in my 75 years of research and study seaking the meanings of Divinity and enlightenment I am still amazed at the general reference to people as separate entities persuing Maslows hierachy. Integrated Living surely requires an understanding that Mankind has only ONE body (born from the interaction of the "Father" in heaven, and the "Mother in earth"), and as individuals we are simply cells in that body. We all attempt to scramble up a hill together and non of us make it until everyone does. It is incumbant on us to keep stopping and offering a hand to those not so able. To claim that as an individual cell we can not, or should not , stop and give advice and assistance before s/he has personally "made it" is rather crass.
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arrogance vs discernment
Posted July 1st, 2010 by Greg BinnsI think the dividing line between the sort of back-slapping aren't-I-superior arrogance that Rustin is pointing to and a more precise and reality-based acknowledgement of the actual developmental situation one is in has to do with the underlying emotional attitude. Wilber, in pointing out that some hierarchies are good and some aren't makes the distinction between growth hierarchies and dominator hierarchies, and I think this is the key in the case that's being debated here. There's nothing wrong with appreciating where you've come to in life, I think, but if the subtext is "and look at all those poor schmucks below me", then we've properly fallen into the mindset that Rustin is cautioning against. On the other hand, basking in appreciation (I'm being a bit hyperbolic here for the sake of drawing a bright line)of all of the nested levels of development that you can put your arms around seems to be a more properly, if you will, 2nd tier sentiment that has love/inclusion/appreciation as it's emotional core rather than a kind of esteem-seeking (as one other poster insightfully pointed out) one-up, sort of "I'm better because you're worse" kind of core.
I'd better get back to work. 
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Objectivist Arrogance
Posted June 6th, 2010 by Richard Layman"As Noam Chomsky goes deeply into green-pluralism and Ayn Rand or Richard Dawkins go deeply into orange-rationality, we profit immeasurably from the insights they excavate. To criticise or think lightly of these people, or anyone focusing on any particular “Tier 1” level for that matter, because they are “lower down the rainbow” is arrogant and, interestingly, the height of lazy immorality."
At the risk of mounting "the height of lazy immorality", I find it ironic that you mention Ayn Rand in the same category as Dawkins in a rant against arrogance and ego-masturbation.
In my analysis, Rand's Objectivism (better called Subjectivism or a "cult of individualism"(an oxymoron)) is little more than an elaborate rationalization of her own Narcissism. She apparently never got over the appropriation of father's drug store by the Soviets when she was a 14 year old girl. (It's little wonder that I enjoyed her writing when I was 14.) From that time she seems to have sought revenge on the very idea of the "common good". Her resume has little to recommend her as a rational thinker.
Rand seems to me an example of arrogance and ego-masturbation personified.
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