Submitted by Shikha Sabharwal on Thu, 03/10/2011 - 04:48
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The value of Integrity
Integrity allows clarity in context about our decisions, and for certainty, and choice. That is, in integrity, I create who I am, I choose to be how I am/how I become, and I am blessed with the clarity of knowing my other values, specifically and clearly in the order of their importance to me, and so making choices becomes more and more fun. If I am clear about who/what I am choosing to be/become, i.e. create in any given context or situation, others involved are less likely to truly project upon me, any fears or insecurities about their own self identities. I am also more willing to feel what I feel, and free to clarify my feelings or share them, for example, if I feel that something is unjust, i.e. if I am hurt, and not able to be responsible for/willing to take responsibility for the experience.
The Progressive Remindings (with Creative Suggestions and Ethical Responses from my side of your family)
The First Reminding: A Universal Reminding
We Are Here
A Lesson on Forgiveness and Belonging to the Global Neighborhood, contextually consistent with:
Creative Suggestion Number 1: Remember (if) that you are a person, a human being, and that every other person belongs as well to the people community or category. All people are human. Understand why to remember or imagine how this is. (This suggestion can be expanded andused in any scenario and/or context, in general and more specifically. )
First Ethical Response, by way of:
The Second Reminding: A Global Reminding
Welcome
something about the what and where boxes...allow the being to become inside of you...the part I left out
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- Abstract art and the emphasis on gesture
- a drawing is defined by 'lines' in relation to movement
- matrix of potentialities; intersection of possibilities to create the path of contra-mimetic tendencies (Eros)
- relation of attention and memory by way of associative paralleling
- Love, and the celebration of beauty: variation in Unity
The Third Reminding: A Somewhat Progressively Suggestive Reminding in the form of Creative Suggestion Number 2
We can Choose to Accept and Trust
Creative Suggestion Number 2: Communication; How to speak in a world wide context, a teaching about and for a more open community, and yourself, just as you are: Remember it's okay.
Expanding a response to a parallel to the Third Allegory sth illegible...on kindness and clarity for my love for all of us and that we are. Loving collaboration grounded in Truth is particularly beautiful and way more fun.
- Inegrative Imaginings: Safe conversational tactics, responses, and/or suggestions for respectful conversation
- Example Statement: "I am a beloved sheep, without arms" - If this statement is unexpectedly expressed toward you for a reply and you wish to expressively respect (sth illegible) and dignity, while maintaining a safe direction, I might offer you
Creative Suggestion Number 3 (The Use of Associative Reference):
Use your association to some of the words and phrases and respond with a related statement or poetic question, remembering to honor the tone and context of the original statement. For example: "Ah, yes, but what shepherd has fewer feet than any one of the flock he commands?"
The Use of Imaginohistorica (It doesn't have to be a Secret):
relational uncertainty following and re-directing conversational momentum via auto-referrent positional certainty.
We often obscure our communicational messages in response to the experience or projection of guilt or shame about implication or interpretational potentialities of more deeply clarified verbolinguistic expressions. To step out of confusion while maintaining a dialogue, we can use our particular subjective actualities and/or objective makings or viewings to ensure a ground of truth for interpretive understanding.
Example A: In a time-delay permissive conversational context, I might display a picture or chart or offer or, a fun fact from my favorite collection or category.
Second Ethical Response: Were someone to share with me in such a way, I could make use of their sharing in my response, entirely or partially , as in Specific Example Two: “That’s really cool. Thank you so much. What is your feeling about trust? I think its so amazing that bats echolocate. Sometimes I wish that I could make such sounds, but if I only had one wish, I don’t know whether or not that would be it.
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A Final Reminding, named “Your Reminding”:
Certain desired communications can never truly be adequately verbalized or quantified, and so a prospective attempts may apparently minimize in voluinterpretation spanning multi-val levels ion. Some things would be better said, expressed; some must simply be told or understood, some other things just shouldn’t be repeated…
and/or are just better left to memory, known or imagined.
However, each one has value served by understanding, and every one is valuable, deserving to be understood.
Third Ethical Response: Response to The Third Reminding: (On the acceptance and recognition of humanity) I forgive (you).
- saying 'yes'
- affirming or accepting
- the recognition and honoring of what is and/or has been
integrallife.com/member/shikha-sabharwal/blog/awareness-return-three-mimetic-steps-chart-mapping-trinity
integrallife.com/member/shikha-sabharwal/blog/imaginohistorica-relational-guidance-life-process-system
