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Message from Moderator: Rule 5

This is a reminder about rule 5 from the Community Guidelines.

 

Cartoon of Lucy van Pelt as psychotherapist.

 

5. Before you offer your wisdom to or about others, remember that your perspective is yours, and just one of many.

This rule is especially important for personal topics, when talking about another person's inner experience, their character, their motives, etc.

A way to demonstrate that you are following this rule is to first ask others whether they want your advice. Honour their perspective that they may not want your advice. If they welcome it, but then don't like it, then please leave it at that, don't persist. 

If you feel this rule is being broken, feel free to send me a message and/or use the Report Abuse button.

 

Stefano

Community Moderator

 

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I believe that even here, especially here, we need to expect people to behave as at least half way decent human beings. If someone is trying to force their advise on any of us and are not treating us with dignity and respect we have a responsibility to let this person know that their advise and attention are not welcome and will not be tolerated. If they persist I trust that you and other caring persons with Integral Life will handle this decisively. I support you in this completely.

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The elephant in the room

What this thread fails to recognise and address, which I find deeply  disturbing, is the abuse inflicted, not by responses to posts from members other than the original poster, but by the original poster themselves.

Integral life members shoudn't abuse each other, but its ok for them to abuse themselves?

Is it not unethical, and therefore unintegral, of Integral Life to allow members to openly and publically abuse themselves?   Are you not culpable?

True some of the recent comments have been very direct; that said my reading of them suggests that they are made with good intentions; at the very least those making the comments have not been 'Guilty Bystanders'.

Jon