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I Want Your 2010 to be Fantastic. Do You?

Posted December 22nd, 2009 by Robb Smith
You don’t still believe in Santa Claus, do you? (I do ... but I have a 2 year old.)
 
Of course you don’t.  But have you thought about why you don’t?
 
Because your beliefs evolve as you do.  
 
In fact, in many ways our beliefs are one of our greatest allies and one of our greatest enemies when it comes to living an extraordinary life of personal growth, emotional balance and integral success.  With the right beliefs we can grow up and wake up, and with the wrong ones we can be held up. I know which I prefer.
 
So do you believe 2010 can your best year ever? 
 
I invite you to take this opportunity, as we bring 2009 to a close, to stop for a moment and reflect on the "belief infrastructure" that will support your move into 2010.  I want you to have a fantastic new year and to be able to move into the year with the energy, clarity and focus that 2010 can be one of your best years yet.  This is a real possibility: unless you have a time machine, 2010 is the leading edge of evolution as we know it, which means you are probably the wisest that you have ever been in your life.
 
So let’s try an experiment. I’d like to invite you to engage in a little New Year’s practice to move you into 2010 with greater awareness, vision and focus...
  1. Write down in concrete detail what you want your life to look like by December 31, 2010. If it helps, set your vision using the Integral Life Practice framework - any or all of Body, Mind, Spirit, Shadow, Service, Work, Relationships, Sexuality, Parenting, Ethics, Activism, etc. (I take my own medicine: I’ve done this every year for 9 years.)
     
  2. Now take exactly 10 minutes: sit by yourself and brainstorm a list of all the assumptions you’re making that either support or hinder your ability to achieve that vision.  Don’t edit yet, just make a note of which assumptions will support you and which will hinder you.
     
  3. Take a moment to re-read and acknowledge all of the supporting assumptions and beliefs that will support you next year.  Just make a quick mental note of how each will support your vision. 
     
  4. Now choose up to 3 inhibiting assumptions you believe will most significantly hinder your vision.  If you are a quarterback, then these three are like the defensive line trying to tackle your ass this coming year, and you’ve got to get your running back by them.
     
  5. Now, for each assumption you’ve chosen, ask yourself the following:
    1. What could I achieve if that assumption is wrong?
    2. What story about myself or my capabilities does that assumption help perpetuate?
    3. What would I do if I wanted to prove that assumption wrong?
    4. When I give voice to that limiting assumption, what voice is speaking? (e.g., the voice of fear, the voice of the skeptic, the voice of the complacent father, the voice of the lonely child, the voice of the failed executive, etc?)
    5. Is it worth it to me to see my assumptions as a story I’m telling myself?
       
  6. Finish by sitting for a final 5 minutes with your eyes closed, breathing deeply.  Notice your mind, emotions and the feeling in your chest as you let your limiting beliefs gradually loosen.  Hopefully you feel a little lighter, a little more focused, a little more like the author of your own life this New Year.
The stories we tell ourselves create a very powerful reality that heavily influences what we’re capable of.  Hard work, focus, skill, multiple perspectives, integral tools and dozens of other things all contribute to what we’re able to do in our lives.  But at some basic level it all starts with what we tell ourselves we will do and then clearing the way mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically to go do it.  
 
And this starts with your story. So tell yourself a great one for 2010. Make it the best year ever. You deserve it, and I’m counting on all of you to help us continue the work that humanity needs you for.
 
Can’t wait to see many of you at ISE next week...
 
Warm loving regards,
 
 
Robb Smith

 

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Let's rebel against our limiting stories.

Posted December 23rd, 2009 by Stanley

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Thanks!

Posted December 27th, 2009 by Stacie Hardison

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Thanks for the invitation to take an active deep look at our assumptions, beliefs, stories, and the voices behind them all.  I made some collages recently and I cut out a quote from a magazine that said "Stop talking yourself out of the life you most want."  I have already caught myself several times doubting my dreams and desires for the life I long for.  Thank you for your guidance in this process of creating our future.  May you also experience the life you most long for!

IBWY always-already

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Changing Beliefs

Posted December 31st, 2009 by Geert Drieghe

Hi Rob,

Do you have some recommended literature on how beliefs change?

Blessings,

Geert

 

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Great exercise--Thanks, Rob

Posted January 5th, 2010 by Loretta Milburn